You aren’t aiming to stand out or be a loner, that is just what you are because of your personality style. That doesn’t go so well with being a part of the group or community. You believe people should have the freedom to make their own choices regardless of what society or the law says. Rules have no purpose but to hold you down and make you conform. #10 You have a disdain for rules because they are meant to keep you down and powerless. Because you don’t think the rules apply to you, you do things that you aren’t supposed to and are sometimes illegal because you think you are above the law. You have a tendency to get into trouble no matter if you try or don’t try. #9 You are usually on the dark side of the morally gray areas. Norms are boring and controlling, and that isn’t what you are all about. You do what you want, when you want and care less about what people think about it. You aren’t the alpha because you don’t want anyone to follow you and what you really hate most is when someone puts expectations on who or what you are “supposed” to be. You aren’t the beta who sets yourself apart by being outside the group. #8 You loathe social norms and expectations. When you talk, people listen, because you never do, and when you do, it is typically worthwhile and valuable. You know just about everything about everything.
You are the definition of both book and street smart, but you play it off like you are all street. #7 People consider you intellectual and intelligent. What is attractive on the outside isn’t so much fun when you never give in or let your mysteriousness fade or your silence turn into idle chatter. Yep, the shy, silent type, women find you mysterious and absolutely have to figure out what is going on in that head of yours.īut, the thing is that you aren’t ever going to let them in. #6 You are highly attractive to women but don’ t really care or notice. But the bad boy is just because you aren’t going to be told what to do, not because you are “bad.” A rebel is very attractive to girls who look for a bad boy. You don’t even want them to think you are amazing. You are the hot guy that comes to town to buck the system and take all the hot girls. #5 You are the James Dean without a cause, literally. You aren’t going to call attention to yourself by voicing any opinion about anything. A man of very, very few words, silence is your stance. If they do say something, you best listen up, because it probably means something. Sigma males have a very limited amount of things to say. #4 Sigmas live their life in silence, but it is golden. They are just fine doing their own thing and couldn’t care less who is in charge. The sigma male is a powerful personality and isn’t altered by anyone, or what they think of them. Sigmas aren’t followers, and they could be leaders if that is the road they chose, but it isn’t. #3 Just as powerful as the alpha, you don’ t feel the need to prove it to anyone but yourself. A true hater of anything popular or “in,” you make sure to be yourself, which sometimes comes across to other guys as quirky. You are a rebel for no other reason than you can be, so why not. #2 You rebel against what you are supposed to do and be, just ‘cause you can. And, the mere mention that you would follow someone else, just ain’t happening. In fact, the very thought someone wants to follow you makes you uncomfortable. You aren’t like the other guys in a group vying to be top dog. #1 You don’ t want to be top dog, you don’ t really even want to be part of the pack. These are the things that almost all sigma males have in common, but it doesn’t define them, nothing ever will.
He doesn’t try to have anyone follow him, quite the opposite. He is truly hard to get because he doesn’t want to be gotten. So, if we aren’t ever to really know a sigma male then how do we know what one is? There are some telltale signs that a guy isn’t just being shy or playing hard to get. What goes on in the sigma male’s head is for his head only. That brooding and mysterious nature of his is never revealed because it is exactly what defines him. The sigma male is hard to pin down specifically because you never really get to know him. Not worried about his placement in the pack, he’s cool all on his own. But, what is the sigma male? The sigma male is an introvert who isn’t introverted as much as just about himself. We all know the alpha male, right? He is the one in the corner usually saying something off color or being a rude jerk to impress everyone else and intimidate them into compliance. An enigma all their own, their blending in makes them stand out. Most have heard of the alpha and beta personalities, but not a lot about the sigma male.